21st birthday party ideas are definitely coming of age parties. You are now officially an adult and coming up with an adult party idea can be hard work.
You may have hundreds of friends you want to invite or maybe you have a mixture of friends and family.
Do you want a formal party or a disco in the local nightclub?
Do you even want a party? You may want to spend time with your friends being pampered at a spa, having dance lessons, an experience day or even a weekend away.
The possibilities are endless, when you start thinking about them and sometimes it can be difficult to decide what to do.
But here is the Pink Heaven Occasions' 21st birthday party ideas guide.
Whatever 21st birthday party ideas that you decide up you are going to need a venue. If your having a party then you are going to need somewhere to host the party:
There are also many other 21st birthday party ideas that you could consider that don’t actually involve a party such as:
If you are having a party you will need a party theme. It is all well and good getting loads of friends round to celebrate but if you really want a party to remember (or not remember if everyone has that good a time!) you should stick to a theme.
Choosing a theme can often be the hardest part of planning the party. But once you have chosen then everything else seems to just fall together.
When choosing a theme there are many considerations to think about. The first thing is what does the birthday girl want? What do YOU like? What are YOUR interests?
A common thing to do is to look at other themes that people have used for their 21st birthday party ideas and then either try to better them or to go with something that is the complete opposite. Although this is sometimes a good idea you need to remember to take into account constrictions of the venue that you are going to be hosting in and the current party trends. Although starting your own party trend is often a winner!
These 21st birthday party ideas for themes can run right through the decorations to fancy dress and even food:
All of the following products in this party idea are from these Pink Heaven Occasions' recommended sites for 21st birthday party supplies:
What invitations to send out depends on your 21st birthday party idea. If you have a large amount of guests coming an Evite (Evite.com) is a good idea as you can email them to everyone you know.
Also a Facebook (Facebook.com) group can be a good idea, giving the details of the party and who is attending. But make sure that you keep the group private and only invite people you know or you could end up with a party full of guests whom you've never seen before.
For those people you want to invite that don’t have access to the Internet a simple text message or even a few bought invitations within your theme should suffice.
If you only have a few people coming (or you have a lot of time on your hands) handmade invitations make your party unique and give that extra special touch.
Keep within your theme. Pink invites for pink party ideas, a Police letter alerting guests to a murder for mystery party ideas, some Disco Fever Invitations for an 80s bash or Poker Invitations for casino party ideas.
Still clueless? For more suggestions visit the Pink Heaven Occasions' Party Invitation Ideas page.
Less is more when it comes to party decorations for a small gathering. You can get some ideas from the Party Decoration Ideas page or a birthday banner and some pink and silver birthday balloons are usually enough to let guests know that it is a party.
But if you are throwing a theme party then you can also try some of these other 21st birthday party ideas for decorations:
Adult party costumes is becoming more and more popular. No longer is it just for kids to be able to dress up as your favourite story book character get everyone to dress up in costume to match the theme of your 21st birthday party ideas.
Here are some costume ideas if your in the USA or UK:
Sexy Red Adult Costume
Major Lee Tanked Adult Costume
WWII Army Babe Adult Costume
Giraffe Cutie Adult Costume
Courageous Lioness Adult Costume
Bodacious Bear Adult Costume
Fuchsia Metallic Adult Costume
U.S. Army In the Army Adult Costume
U.S. Army Camo Dress Adult Costume
Ghostbusters Sexy Adult Costume
The Wizard of Oz Secret Wishes Dorothy Adult Costume
Sexy Teddy Bear Adult Costume
You’re never too old for birthday cakes so why not choose one of these 21st birthday party ideas for cakes:
If your still stuck for ideas then check out some of the other party idea pages or the Birthday Cake Ideas page.
Unless you are having a formal sit down meal don’t put too much emphasis on food for 21st birthday party ideas. Most people of this age would rather drink! But a few nibbles will go down a treat, start with some suggestions from the Adult Party Food Ideas page then add some of these extra items:
If you are having a large party make sure you get everyone to bring a bottle or even some extra nibbles.
Also don’t forget plenty of mixers and juices for the non-drinkers.
To stop everyone drinking too much and passing out try and involve them in some 21st birthday party ideas for entertainment:
With 21st birthday party ideas for favors be sensible. If you inviting hundreds of guests it is not really cost effective to buy hundreds of favors.
In keeping with a retro theme you could buy large jars of retro sweets and hand these out to everyone if you really do want to give something to everyone.
If there arn't enough ideas for you on the Adult Party Favors page then add some of these ideas:
Party Like Theres No To-Maya Straw Hat
I Survived the Mayan Calender T-Shirt
Buy Me A Shot - Ask Me Why Satin Sash
Cheers "21" Shot Glass
Cheers "21" Plastic Beer Mug
Adult Spin-A-Shot Drinking Game
Adult Drinking Games Set
Magnetic Adult Dart Board (2 sided)
Another Birthday Shot Necklace with Shot Glass
Beer Can Drink Bands Assorted (12 count)
Birthday Girl Body Jewelry (14 count)
Birthday Cheers 18 oz. Light-Up Beer Mug
Here are some other Pink Heaven Occasions' recommended sites for 21st birthday party ideas:
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